The Truth About Anal Toys
Anal play is often misunderstood — but for many people, it’s a powerful and pleasurable part of their sexual journey. Here’s what you need to know to explore safely and confidently:
Use the right toy. Anal toys should always have a flared base to prevent accidents. Start small, go slow.
1. Lube is non-negotiable:
The rectum doesn’t self-lubricate. A high-quality water- or silicone-based lube is essential.
2. Relaxation is everything:
Deep breaths, slow movements, and communication help make the experience enjoyable.
3. Hygiene matters:
Clean toys thoroughly before and after, and consider using toy-safe condoms if sharing.
4. Don’t believe the myths:
Anal play doesn’t "stretch you out" permanently and is enjoyed by people of all genders and orientations.
Whether you’re curious or confident, the key is to stay informed, go at your own pace, and use toys designed specifically for anal use.